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DS just posted on fb that he has lost his home, his job, and someone special.
I know that these are natural consequences to his choices, but my mama's heart still aches.
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« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2012, 06:58:46 PM » |
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Oh Dear  So sorry for your pain. Maybe it's not as bad as it sounds.... my dd was all about DRAMA! Maybe boys are different. |
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DSD22, definitely Raddy (self-diagnosed by me)
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The voice of reason....gone amok
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« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2012, 07:31:26 PM » |
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((((Blessings))))) take a deep breath and hope for the best. Hoping its better than it sounds. |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2012, 07:56:00 PM » |
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Thanks all.
His superficially charming characteristics will get him and his pitbull puppy a couch, I am sure.
Just wish staying at the station wasn't such hard work.
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courage does not always roar.
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Hebrews 11:1
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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2012, 08:18:57 PM » |
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((( Hugs ))))
Saying a prayer for your DS, Blessings.
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DS5 (C) ~ miracle baby bio son born Nov '13, neurotypical
DS13 (D) ~ domestic adoption May '12, SID, Asperger's
DS14 (M) ~ relative adoption Nov '12, ADHD, RAD-lite, FAE
DD15 (C) ~ relative adoption Nov '12, ADHD, RAD-lite, FAE
DD17 (A) ~ international adoption Oct. '05, drug abuse, RAD
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One tiny step at a time...
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« Reply #5 on: August 26, 2012, 10:05:39 PM » |
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Praying for sure....  |
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Insanity is hereditary--you get it from your kids!
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DN17- ADHD, RAD, Bipolar and possibly FAE
SS21-sweetpea (ok, at HKU) with some attachment issues due to divorce--currently enrolled in HKU
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« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2012, 10:45:49 PM » |
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So sorry it has to be difficult, blessings. Thinking of you.
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ds26 - bio (sweetpea)
dd23 - adopted (rad/borderline personality - sociopath)
dd21 - adopted (mildly rad, bipolar, fae?)
ds20 - adopted (sweet pea)
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« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2012, 11:04:06 PM » |
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Hugs, Blessings!  |
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My life is blessed by all of you.
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dd with RAD/some form of adult PD (BPD,NPD,ASPD?)-30's
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« Reply #8 on: August 26, 2012, 11:06:00 PM » |
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also pray that God, somehow in His way, brings someone with a clue into the life of the rescue mom.  She has not a clue! blessings |
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courage does not always roar.
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« Reply #9 on: August 27, 2012, 12:32:59 AM » |
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((((((((blessings))))))))
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This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.
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« Reply #10 on: August 27, 2012, 12:07:24 PM » |
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Please hold me back! If she calls herself ds's mom one more time.....  If I could think of something tactful to say in a personal note, I would, but I am not feeling real tactful at the moment. I can't imagine how you feel! |
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My life is blessed by all of you.
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« Reply #11 on: August 27, 2012, 12:35:24 PM » |
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Speaking of which, do we have a sticky anywhere pointing to a note that could be passed on to a rescue parent
as to why they shouldn't be playing mommy or daddy to an unattached person?
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My life is blessed by all of you.
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« Reply #12 on: August 27, 2012, 10:39:15 PM » |
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bijou, If you find something let me know, I have her address. We could mail it to her.  blessings |
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courage does not always roar.
sometimes courage is the quiet voice
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"i will try again tomorrow".
mary anne radmacher
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One tiny step at a time...
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« Reply #13 on: August 27, 2012, 10:55:13 PM » |
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You could always send her an itemized bill for the last 20 years give or take. Tell her in order to take that name, you must be compensated for the time, effort and $$ you put in!   |
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Insanity is hereditary--you get it from your kids!
2 Bio sons 7 & 9-sweetpeas
DN17- ADHD, RAD, Bipolar and possibly FAE
SS21-sweetpea (ok, at HKU) with some attachment issues due to divorce--currently enrolled in HKU
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« Reply #14 on: August 29, 2012, 07:55:08 AM » |
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Please keep praying friends. Got a phone call from DS at 3 a.m. He wanted to talk to us because people were after him, and he's going to get 'hurt bad'. Dumb kid. blessings |
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courage does not always roar.
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