I posted this question in the 11 - 14 year olds but thought to duplicate it here. Have any of you personally experienced your healing RADs seemingly beginning to act out as a result of revisiting old traumas anew? From what I have read any negative character issues with even "normal" teens can result in the pre-teens/teens separating themselves from their parents and beginning to get into trouble. Sometimes this can lead to breaking the law, and experimenting with sex, drugs and/or alcohol. I know breaking away is common as the child begins to mature and place themselves in the proper persepective as just one in the world instead of the world revolving around them (I am the bio mother of two teen daughters so I know all about this!
). But the mystery of what makes one child be a snot for a few years and then snap out of it (like my girls) and others go into the deep end is something that scares me when it comes to my sons.
My boys endured tremendous trauma and we have helped them face it as much as we know how. But, I want to be on the look out for issues with it surfacing again and try and help them handle them with understanding and love and in a positive manner before they feel tugged into the wrong ways to deal with it. My boys are healing RADs and still a joy to live with right now. I pray this will not cease to be.
Anyone going through their pubesent healing RADs sprialing backwards?