bijou
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« on: July 28, 2008, 10:06:22 AM » |
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Blessings says she will be back on the board in a couple of weeks as she has company and can't get a private moment to visit us. Please remember her in prayer as there is a lot of stress in her life right now.
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My life is blessed by all of you.
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justine
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« Reply #1 on: July 28, 2008, 10:26:32 AM » |
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Yep, had the same thing when i was gone for over a week a few weeks ago. Only a few quiet moments. Please let her know that we are "fine"  and that we miss her!  |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
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DianeM2
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« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2008, 01:03:29 PM » |
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Tell her we are missing her and that she is in our prayers.
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DS18, adopted age 4, RAD, ADHD, Bi-Polar, PTSD, ARND, Static Encephalopathy, phonological disorder, dysthymia, history of abuse and neglect. DS currently in Juvenile Corrections Facility.
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RADishMOM
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« Reply #3 on: July 28, 2008, 01:23:51 PM » |
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Awwww, I'm sorry to hear that about Blessings....she's such a lovely soul, she deserves much better. I miss her on the board. Please give her my best wishes and let her know I'm praying for her.
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« Reply #4 on: July 28, 2008, 03:02:31 PM » |
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Ditto all the previous.
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karleen
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« Reply #5 on: July 28, 2008, 03:18:36 PM » |
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Me too!
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« Reply #6 on: July 28, 2008, 03:59:05 PM » |
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Say hello to Blessings from me, we're waiting for her  |
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« Reply #7 on: July 28, 2008, 07:38:33 PM » |
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Will be saying special prayers for our special friend!!!  Chris  |
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« Reply #8 on: July 28, 2008, 09:49:45 PM » |
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Let her know we are thinking of her! Prayers going up for her too!
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Hebrews 13:5-6 Amplified Bible
for He God Himself has said, I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. I will Not, I will Not, I will Not in any degree leave you helpeless nor forsake nor let you down nor relax my hold on you ASSUREDLY NOT.
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« Reply #9 on: July 30, 2008, 06:16:47 AM » |
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« Reply #10 on: August 01, 2008, 11:20:56 PM » |
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you all are the best.
tonight my mum went to bed early and I decided to come hang out here.
I so much need this place.
Right now with everything going on, I decided that a little less sleep would more than be balanced out by a sanity check.
I'll try to check in over the next couple of days. Mum leaves on Friday. She is lovely but doesn't understand how 'strangers' can help me so much.
Thanks all for the lovely thoughts and prayers.
They are treasured.
blessings
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courage does not always roar.
sometimes courage is the quiet voice
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justine
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« Reply #11 on: August 02, 2008, 08:35:15 AM » |
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Wow...you know you live in Radland when you come HERE for a "sanity check"! |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #12 on: August 02, 2008, 11:27:48 PM » |
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Keep praying dear ones.
Tonight my son called to let us know that he almost got kicked out of his residential facility. He went into his house parents private apartment, used their computer, and accessed inappropriate stuff.
He has been given a second chance, not charged with breaking and entering, and is now on a 2 week lock down.
I am heartsick.
When I talked to him, he demonstrated no remorse, told me that if he got kicked out that he would go back to detention and get another placement.
Then he started arguing with me and I ended the call.
Do say prayers.
For me as I am exhausted and heartsick.
For my husband and girls as they are also heartsick.
And finally, pray for my son. Pray that he has a moment some time in his life, where he realizes what great potential lies ahead of him if he only makes good choices.
Thank you all, I will keep you posted.
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courage does not always roar.
sometimes courage is the quiet voice
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"i will try again tomorrow".
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« Reply #13 on: August 03, 2008, 12:08:19 AM » |
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Since i am sad and praying tonite anyway, i will be happy to pray for your ds and family (and of COURSE, you!). I spent my evening attempting to call Dh for hours. This is ds's night to move out. Ds has not ever attacked any of us, but i always wonder if he is capable of it. Dh left his phone in the bedroom, AFTER DS LEFT PEACEFULLY, watched a movie and fell asleep on the couch. Soooooo, for the past 5 hours i have called and called.....and wondered if ds flipped. if dh is hurt. if i should call the police. if. if. .  . I just cant get thru to dh that we dont wait for "when".... Even when ds has a grand larceny charge hanging over his head, dh hands him the keys to his store and lets him "watch the phones" while he steps out.... til he finds 400.00 missing. Money is just stuff. But i dont want one of us hurt because "he's never been violent before." Okay i am rambling and exhausted from my vigil..... All is well, for now. Ds20 is living with some stranger now that he rented a room from....because he will not live within our rules, will not listen, will not (fill in the blank) Now i feel like i have to keep shoring up dh's resolve for the inevitable phone calls from ds....when he loses his job, when he gets arrested....STAY STRONG! justine, who isnt so strong herself right now. sorry for riding the coattails of your post....i was too tired to start my own.. (((((blessings))))))) ps. sorry for the dd14 rad panic mode!  |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #14 on: August 03, 2008, 12:22:32 AM » |
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Justine,
Thanks for the reply.
I understand your fears. I would be frantic til I heard from my hubby in the same circumstances.
I have had horrible moments when I could not get a hold of anyone at home or my daughter on her cell phone and I have wondered what I was going to find when I came home.
It is a horrible way to live.
the stress is horrific.
Know that you will be in my prayers tonight.
blessings
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courage does not always roar.
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