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« Reply #15 on: October 30, 2008, 12:48:08 PM »

Diane,

Oh, it ended up being a very good thing.

It was the red flag, flares, warning shot across the bow that I had bee praying for.

My son has this innate ability to become people's 'pet', and they stop listening to me.  Actually, I don't think they ever listened to me.

Now there are lots of people listening.

Social worker, house parents, supervisors, jrotc master sergeant, soon his judge, and always, his attachment therapist.  Our AT is the only one that has been on board since day one.  Oh, and he wasn't able to con the neuropsych.

Terrifying to live through, but now that I am through it, hopefully my son can be seen for who he really is.

His house teacher/mom told me "I never thought he would run, and it was over something so small."

I was able to respond appropriately and say something like "the problem all along is that he hasn't responded in proportion to the problem."

I really wanted to say "duh, have you been listening?"

Oh well....so glad for here.

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courage does not always roar.
sometimes courage is the quiet voice
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"i will try again tomorrow".
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« Reply #16 on: November 07, 2008, 08:23:13 AM »


His house teacher/mom told me "I never thought he would run, and it was over something so small."

I was able to respond appropriately and say something like "the problem all along is that he hasn't responded in proportion to the problem."

I really wanted to say "duh, have you been listening?"


 icon_thumright  Don't ya just love it when you can find the words to say just the right thing?!  Good goin'! 

Glad everyone is not snowed there anymore!!
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Diane
DS18, adopted age 4, RAD, ADHD, Bi-Polar, PTSD, ARND, Static Encephalopathy, phonological disorder, dysthymia, history of abuse and neglect.  DS currently in Juvenile Corrections Facility.
"Lord help me to start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude."
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« Reply #17 on: November 07, 2008, 01:34:37 PM »

Diane,

I credit my ability to come up with good responses to this board.

So much wisdom here!!!!

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courage does not always roar.
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