justine
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« on: November 06, 2013, 10:52:34 PM » |
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Today was my mom's first birthday without her here. Now my 64 yr old brother is critically ill and may not last the night. My sister died at age 63 very suddenly 2.5 years ago. Mom passed away this May.  Hard to believe, really! Prayers are for his five kids who are taking it hard. They are 23 to 43 and have watched their dad fight an extraordinary fight against genetic induced emphysema for a dozen years now. He has been ill for over 20 years. Most prayers please that if this is his time, that he will pass bathed in peace and comfort. It must be so awful to just not be able to breathe anymore.  Thanks all. |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2013, 10:59:05 PM » |
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Praying tonight that his passing will be swift and sweet if it is his time to go.
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« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2013, 02:37:53 AM » |
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I will be praying for your brother.
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justine
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The voice of reason....gone amok
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« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2013, 07:52:15 AM » |
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Thanks everyone. I'm off to work with my phone in my pocket. A sad day but he's still here. He may surprise us again.  |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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Kathleenb
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« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2013, 08:39:01 AM » |
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(((Justine)))
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I survived 2 bio's and 4 adopteds, all now adults
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« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2013, 09:38:02 AM » |
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(((((((((Justine))))))))))))))))
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1= AGD 22,ODD&RAD&BPD&CUTTER&FAE, SUICIDAL,DRUG ABUSER & DRUNK.
1= AGD24, DEPRESSION, DIGESTIVE STRESS Dx, EX-SWP ASTRANGED. BIO SIS TO AGD22.
1 AD40 METH ABUSER
1 AD42 DRUNK, METH/ DOM. VIOL. BIO MOM OF DGD22 AND DGD24.
DS32 & DD43 NO ISSUES.
8 OTHER GRNDS/6 GRT GRNDS (UNKNOWN)
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« Reply #6 on: November 07, 2013, 09:52:52 AM » |
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Hugs for you. Prayers for your brother.
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« Reply #7 on: November 07, 2013, 09:54:37 AM » |
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((((((justine)))))) Praying for all of you.
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karleen
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This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.
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« Reply #8 on: November 07, 2013, 10:06:21 AM » |
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Hugs to you, Justine. Praying as well for all of you.
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My life is blessed by all of you.
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« Reply #9 on: November 11, 2013, 09:07:29 AM » |
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Justine, Thinking of you.  |
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Lord,
Fill my mouth with worthwhile stuff & shut it when I've said enough. Amen
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« Reply #10 on: November 11, 2013, 09:33:45 AM » |
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Any news re. your brother, Justine?
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Bio-daughters 30 & 28, bio-son now in heaven, dear son 14 (healing from alphabet soup disorder)
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« Reply #11 on: November 11, 2013, 01:24:44 PM » |
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Praying for your family, (((((((((((Justine))))))))))))))) anne |
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« Reply #12 on: November 11, 2013, 01:59:21 PM » |
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((justine)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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justine
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« Reply #13 on: November 11, 2013, 05:51:26 PM » |
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Thank you so much for remembering ladies. My brother died peacefully last night, surrounded by all five of his children, my sister and a few other close relatives. He did not die alone. He was not afraid. My prayers were answered but my heart hurts. He fought a valiant fight, literally doing EVERYTHING he could to take excellent care of himself as the disease marched on. He never would have lived til age 64 otherwise. He'll be missed. My mom will be happy to see him.
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #14 on: November 11, 2013, 06:47:14 PM » |
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What a wonderful way to pass.
So sorry for your loss.
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1= AGD 22,ODD&RAD&BPD&CUTTER&FAE, SUICIDAL,DRUG ABUSER & DRUNK.
1= AGD24, DEPRESSION, DIGESTIVE STRESS Dx, EX-SWP ASTRANGED. BIO SIS TO AGD22.
1 AD40 METH ABUSER
1 AD42 DRUNK, METH/ DOM. VIOL. BIO MOM OF DGD22 AND DGD24.
DS32 & DD43 NO ISSUES.
8 OTHER GRNDS/6 GRT GRNDS (UNKNOWN)
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