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« on: November 09, 2013, 11:05:21 AM »

Pa's dad died last night.  He was 90 yrs. old & frail.  But the family is torn, taking sides & making accusations, particularly against the brother who took his parents into his home & cared for them.  There was an allegation of taking advantage of a vulnerable adult - closed as unfounded.  Really too much garbage to list.

Pa's mom has dementia or she would tall them all to knock it off & act like grownups.

Pa could really use your prayers.
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« Reply #1 on: November 09, 2013, 11:18:33 AM »

Condolances for both of you and sorry for the ugly mess around, wish you strenght.
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« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2013, 12:51:34 PM »

Wrapping you and Pa in prayers.

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« Reply #3 on: November 09, 2013, 01:14:16 PM »

My sympathies and prayers are with you and Pa.
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« Reply #4 on: November 09, 2013, 03:16:00 PM »

Praying from here for the Father's peace, strength, and Holy presence.  (((((((((((Pa and Ma)))))))))
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« Reply #5 on: November 09, 2013, 03:36:39 PM »

((((((((((((((Pa&Ma)))))))))))))))
Praying here.
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« Reply #6 on: November 09, 2013, 06:28:37 PM »

(((((((Pa and Ma)))))))

Praying even now.
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« Reply #7 on: November 09, 2013, 06:44:13 PM »

Praying for the family.
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« Reply #8 on: November 09, 2013, 09:35:39 PM »

The Lord knows.  And sees all.  Prayers for Pa and his family.   Losing a parent, no matter how old or how frail is a life changer.
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« Reply #9 on: November 09, 2013, 09:47:03 PM »

Peace to all.
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« Reply #10 on: November 09, 2013, 10:48:39 PM »

Condolences to Pa and the family.

Prayers for all to enjoy the kind of peace that only God can give.

Why does a death in the family bring out the ugly side of people?   Sad
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« Reply #11 on: November 10, 2013, 08:45:28 AM »

Please add my thoughts and prayers and hopes for strength and guidance through this very difficult time.  <<< hugs >>>
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« Reply #12 on: November 10, 2013, 09:38:53 AM »

Prayers to you all and your family.
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« Reply #13 on: November 10, 2013, 09:48:06 AM »

Prayers to all as you muddle thru  angel10
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« Reply #14 on: November 10, 2013, 11:47:10 AM »

(((Pa & Ma)))

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