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« Reply #60 on: November 27, 2013, 10:38:32 AM » |
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Any word yet on whereabouts of dd? Praying all is well.
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« Reply #61 on: November 27, 2013, 09:26:10 PM » |
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I don't imagine we'll hear anything from her. And we won't hear from Job Corps because she's 19.
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« Reply #62 on: November 27, 2013, 09:58:48 PM » |
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You will eventually, Ma. But in the meantime  Hope you will be spending Thanksgiving with some grateful SWPs.... |
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #63 on: November 28, 2013, 03:45:26 PM » |
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Pa, and Ma, wrapping you both in prayers.
Thinking of you so often today.
Holidays are so difficult. Just wanted you to know that I am out here, thinking of you, caring. This year may be even more difficult than usual.
Think of you so often.
blessings
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« Reply #64 on: November 28, 2013, 03:49:32 PM » |
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(((((((((((((Ma and Pa)))))))))))))))))) Whack-a-mole at its best it seems. Hang in there. Praying for you folks and Dd. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.  anne |
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Darlins are bio sibs -Dd20 (RAD, GAD-NOS, PTSD, Bipolar? ABC?), Ds18 (AD,CP,PDD-NOS,PTSD); adopted at 6 and 3.5 yr
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« Reply #65 on: November 29, 2013, 03:45:04 PM » |
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(((Ma & Pa)))
When DS (now 23) was in Job Corps, I can't remember how many times he went AWOL - frequently with the gf & her family, who wouldn't believe us about his lying or his not having time off... So he ended up with maybe one personal day when his son was born. They packed him out a few times but continued to allow him to return. He did eventually graduate.
We do the best we can. Their lives are well outside our control.
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« Reply #66 on: December 11, 2013, 10:09:18 AM » |
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Not a peep from DD since we dropped her back at Job Corps after the funeral.
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Lord,
Fill my mouth with worthwhile stuff & shut it when I've said enough. Amen
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« Reply #67 on: December 11, 2013, 10:34:50 AM » |
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No news is good news?
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« Reply #68 on: December 11, 2013, 11:06:21 AM » |
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Dd18 has been doing this as well, coming on/off the radar. It's hard to cope with. Prayers from here. anne |
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"Good question! Next Question!
"His grace is sufficient...always strength comes for the task."
"Hope on, Hope ever!"
"I don't have to attend every argument I'm invited to!"
Darlins are bio sibs -Dd20 (RAD, GAD-NOS, PTSD, Bipolar? ABC?), Ds18 (AD,CP,PDD-NOS,PTSD); adopted at 6 and 3.5 yr
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« Reply #69 on: December 11, 2013, 11:33:17 AM » |
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(((((((((((((((Ma & Anne)))))))))))))))
You two sure are going thru a lot right now with these girls.
So glad you have each other to help you thru it.
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1= AGD 22,ODD&RAD&BPD&CUTTER&FAE, SUICIDAL,DRUG ABUSER & DRUNK.
1= AGD24, DEPRESSION, DIGESTIVE STRESS Dx, EX-SWP ASTRANGED. BIO SIS TO AGD22.
1 AD40 METH ABUSER
1 AD42 DRUNK, METH/ DOM. VIOL. BIO MOM OF DGD22 AND DGD24.
DS32 & DD43 NO ISSUES.
8 OTHER GRNDS/6 GRT GRNDS (UNKNOWN)
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« Reply #70 on: December 11, 2013, 02:50:29 PM » |
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I hope its because she is "happy" Ma. That's usually the case with mine. Do they shut down any at Christmas time? (Job Corp?)
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #71 on: December 11, 2013, 02:58:03 PM » |
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Do they shut down any at Christmas time? (Job Corp?)
Yes, 10 duty days + 3 weekends. I figure that means this Friday is her last duty day before break. She isn't coming here, she's already told us that she's going to her bios. I think that she's chosen the bios over the adopteds. We told her that we would be open to a relationship when she is ready. I sent her gift directly to Job Corps & delivery was confirmed last week. That & pray is all I can do now. |
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Lord,
Fill my mouth with worthwhile stuff & shut it when I've said enough. Amen
3 bio sons & Rad DD
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« Reply #72 on: December 11, 2013, 06:37:34 PM » |
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You are a good mom!
blessings
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courage does not always roar.
sometimes courage is the quiet voice
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« Reply #73 on: December 11, 2013, 07:05:52 PM » |
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The Bios.....so sorry Ma. Seems like a recurring theme here.
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bio dd35 freakishly sweet
bio ds32 recklessly loving
bio ds27 frightfully kind
adopted sibling group at ages 10, 6 and 4
worstrad30 adopted at age 10, left family at age 18
ads27 FAE/rad, we're still looking for a conscience, estranged
add24 P/A Rad. Unattached, wants the family bene
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« Reply #74 on: December 11, 2013, 09:54:24 PM » |
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((((((Ma & Pa))))))
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